You might have observed a pause in my posts recently, and I want to share the reason for my temporary silence. My husband was involved in a car accident that I unfortunately witnessed, resulting in the total loss of his car. While he miraculously emerged without any broken bones, he experienced deep tissue bruising, causing considerable pain and requiring several days off work. The scene replays in my mind, attempting to rewrite the ending as if a different outcome were possible.

The potential for a different outcome, such as broken bones or even the extreme of not surviving, has prompted deep reflection on what truly matters in my life. I’ve always been one of those individuals who enjoys staying busy, challenging my mind with continuous learning, trying new things, helping people, and savoring precious moments with my husband through heartfelt conversations and relaxing in the hot tub. However, the recent events have compelled me to question whether I am genuinely living my best life and actively sharing it with others or simply keeping myself busy.

Living our best life involves aligning our choices with God’s principles and sharing the blessings with others. In Matthew 22:37-39, Jesus emphasizes the greatest commandments—to love God wholeheartedly and to love our neighbors as ourselves. This foundation guides us in making choices that honor God and benefit those around us. 

To ensure we are living our best life, we must regularly assess our priorities and actions. Philippians 4:8 encourages us to focus on whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, or praiseworthy. This mindset helps us filter our decisions, ensuring they reflect God’s values. 

Living our best life looks like a life of gratitude, contentment, and generosity. 1 Timothy 6:6 reminds us that godliness with contentment is great gain. When we appreciate what we have and generously share our blessings, we experience the joy of living in God’s abundance. 

An exemplary biblical figure who lived his best life was Joseph. Despite facing adversity, betrayal, and imprisonment, Joseph remained faithful to God. He forgave those who wronged him, used his gifts to serve others, and ultimately played a pivotal role in God’s redemptive plan. 

In emulating Joseph’s resilience, forgiveness, and commitment to God, we too can live our best life and positively impact the lives of those around us. By seeking God’s guidance, prioritizing love and service, and maintaining an attitude of gratitude, we create a life that reflects His glory.

You see, I desire to replace the mental replay of the car accident with meaningful actions that reflect how I am actively living my best life now and sharing it with others. The awareness of our finite existence, the certainty of eventual mortality, encourages me to cherish every moment. While work and daily responsibilities persist, I am determined to channel more of my waking hours into what truly matters with those who truly matter, allowing the rest to naturally fall by the wayside.  Today, I challenge you live YOUR best life and share with those who matter the most to you.