According to JoAnne

The Timeless Gift of Hospitality

Hey there, friends! Today, let’s dive into the warm embrace of a beautiful spiritual gift: hospitality. In a world that often feels rushed and disconnected, the gift of hospitality stands as a shining beacon, inviting us to slow down, connect, and share love with one another. So grab a comfy seat, and let’s explore this gift that’s both timeless and desperately needed in our world today.

You know, in biblical times, hospitality wasn’t just a social nicety; it was a sacred duty. Back then, people relied on the kindness of strangers when they traveled, as there were no roadside motels or Yelp reviews to guide their way. In fact, hospitality was a central value in the Middle Eastern culture of the time. The practice of offering food, shelter, and care to travelers and guests was seen as a way of showing honor and protection, often reflecting God’s generous provision.

Now, let’s turn to Scripture – the Holman Bible – to see some beautiful examples of hospitality. One standout is Abraham. In Genesis 18, we read about how he welcomed three strangers into his home. Little did he know that these visitors were angels with a message from God! Abraham’s willingness to open his tent to strangers, even in the heat of the day, led to an incredible encounter and a promise of blessing.

Another star of hospitality is Lydia. In Acts 16, we meet this remarkable woman who, with an open heart, invited Paul and his companions into her home. Her generosity created a space for them to rest and recover, allowing God’s work to flourish even more.

Now, let’s fast forward to today. The world has changed, but the need for hospitality hasn’t. In a fast-paced society where screens often take the place of face-to-face interactions, genuine connection can feel like a rare gem. This is where the spiritual gift of hospitality shines brightest.

Imagine the impact if we embraced hospitality with the same fervor as Abraham or Lydia! It’s not just about hosting grand banquets; it’s about creating spaces where people feel seen, valued, and loved – whether that’s in our homes, workplaces, or communities. It’s a gift that bridges divides and builds bridges, drawing people closer to each other and to God’s heart.

So, how can we best use the gift of hospitality today? Here are a few practical tips:

1. Open Hearts, Open Homes: Don’t wait for a special occasion. Open your heart and your home to friends, family, and even strangers. Simple gatherings can lead to deep connections.

2. Listen and Learn: Hospitality isn’t just about providing physical comfort. Take time to listen to others, learn their stories, and genuinely care about their joys and struggles.

3. Create Safe Spaces: In a world full of judgment and criticism, let your hospitality be a safe haven. Allow people to be themselves without fear of rejection.

4. Practice Radical Inclusion: Just like Lydia, be willing to extend hospitality to those who are different from you. Embrace diversity and see it as an opportunity for growth.

5. Share God’s Love: Ultimately, our hospitality should reflect God’s love. Whether through a meal, a warm smile, or a helping hand, let your actions point others to the incredible love of our Creator.

Growing up in the south it was very common for family and friends to drop in without calling first.  My mother taught us to always cook additional food at mealtime for the occasional visitor or the neighborhood kids who were at the house playing with us.  We would even sit two additional plates on the counter at mealtime so we were ready to quickly serve anyone who arrived during a meal.

But mom didn’t stop there.  On our kitchen table we either had a pie dish or cake plate filled with made from scratch pie or cake along with fresh squeezed lemonade and sweet tea in the fridge.  Our random guest was welcomed with an offer to partake in these sweet treats which were not just a sweet surprise but also top-notch desserts.

Not everyone likes to have people over to their home.  For Tim it is exhausting while for me it is invigorating.  We need to respect our family and how they feel while still finding ways to get to know other people and allow them to get to you know you.  When people get to know each other, better walls begin to fall and sharing Jesus becomes easier.  It can open doors for an invitation for them to worship with your church family as well.

So, if having people over to your home isn’t really a good option for you, try to invite them to join you for a tailgate at a football game, a day on the lake for boating or a cookout, a picnic in the mountain, Food Truck Friday or other city event, or dinner out for a family birthday party.

As we wrap up, remember that hospitality isn’t about perfection – it’s about the heart. It’s about choosing to prioritize people over tasks and to create spaces where God’s love can flow freely. So, let’s go forth, embracing the beauty of this gift, and watch as our world transforms one heartfelt welcome at a time.

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